That has to be difficult.

I think as long as the lines in the sand are drawn and its made clear that you need to train and stay physically fit she should be able to adjust. Obviously there are standards both sides need to adhere to. For example, if you have two kids you're not training for 3 hours a day. But it seems completely reasonable how you're doing it. Getting up super early everyday to make it happen. I can't imagine a relationship where both individuals dont have their on "thing" that they do on their own. Everyone needs an outlet. Everything cant be about the family, all the time. thats just not healthy.